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Why I Was Wrong About Leading Gen Z—And What Changed My Mind

Vikrant Mulay 6 min read November 5, 2026
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I Used to Think Gen Z Was Impossible to Lead

I’ll admit it—I used to think leading Gen Z was a nightmare. They seemed distracted, unmotivated, and overly idealistic. I’d hear recruiters and HR managers complain about how hard it was to keep them engaged. They job-hopped, demanded remote work, and asked questions that felt more like challenges than feedback.

The stereotype painted them as entitled and disengaged. Honestly, I believed it. I thought, “Maybe they just don’t care about work the way older generations do.” Looking back, that was lazy thinking.


What Changed My Mind

The shift came when I stumbled on HR Dive's article about leadership approaches tailored to Gen Z. It challenged the idea that they’re inherently disengaged. Instead, it argued that Gen Z craves authentic leadership and purpose-driven work. They’re not lazy—they’re selective. This generation wants to see their values reflected in their workplace.

I couldn’t argue with that. After all, who doesn’t want meaningful work and leaders they can trust?

But the aha moment didn’t end there. Around the same time, I came across a recruiter struggling to screen and engage candidates effectively. They were overwhelmed by thousands of resumes, missing out on talented Gen Z applicants who didn’t fit traditional molds. They decided to try TalentNext’s AI-powered resume screening. The tool scored resumes against job descriptions, flagged top matches, and provided insights into the candidates’ strengths. The time saved—75% less manual screening—allowed them to focus on connecting with candidates instead of drowning in paperwork.

That’s when it clicked. The issue wasn’t Gen Z. The issue was how leaders approached them. The problem was a lack of intention in engagement and leadership strategies.


Why I Believed the Stereotypes for So Long

It’s easy to blame the new generation when things don’t work. Every generation does it. Millennials were labeled “lazy,” Gen X was called “apathetic,” and Boomers were “too rigid.” The truth is, these stereotypes persist because they’re convenient. It’s simpler to generalize than to confront the hard work of adapting.

Another reason? We’re conditioned to lead the way we were led. Many of us grew up in workplaces that valued hierarchy, loyalty, and conformity. Gen Z flips the script. They value transparency, collaboration, and flexibility. If you’re stuck in the old ways, that shift feels like rebellion.

And let’s not ignore the role of miscommunication. Gen Z’s digital-first approach can make older generations feel disconnected. They text instead of call, and they’re quick to question processes that seem outdated. For someone who grew up believing “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it,” that mindset feels frustrating.


What I Do Differently Now

Leading Gen Z isn’t about reinventing leadership—it’s about aligning leadership with their values. Here’s what’s changed for me:

1. Authenticity Over Authority

Gen Z doesn’t care about your title; they care about your actions. They want leaders who admit mistakes, share their vision, and listen without judgment. I’ve learned to drop the corporate-speak and be more transparent about challenges, goals, and decisions.

Actionable Steps:

2. Focus on Purpose

This generation thrives on meaningful work. They want to know how their role contributes to the bigger picture. I make it a point to tie individual tasks to larger organizational goals. For example, when we were adopting TalentNext’s AI tools, I explained how the technology would help us free up time to connect with candidates more personally. That connection to a purpose made the team more excited about the change.

Actionable Steps:

3. Invest in Mentorship

Gen Z craves mentorship more than micromanagement. They want guidance, not control. I’ve started carving out time for one-on-one sessions to help team members develop skills, set career goals, and explore new opportunities. It’s less about telling them what to do and more about helping them figure out how to do it.

Actionable Steps:

4. Use AI to Enhance Engagement

Tools like TalentNext have become critical for improving how we interact with candidates. The AI-powered resume analysis doesn’t just save time—it gives us deeper insights into what candidates value. For example, we can identify skills that align with our company’s mission and use that information to tailor our outreach. This approach resonates with Gen Z, who appreciates personalized communication.

Actionable Steps:


What It Cost Me to Be Wrong

Believing the stereotypes made me a poorer leader. I missed opportunities to connect with talented individuals because I didn’t understand what they needed. Worse, I contributed to the cycle of disengagement by approaching Gen Z with the wrong mindset.

And I’m still learning. The hardest part is bridging gaps between generations. It’s not just Gen Z; every generation has unique values and expectations. The challenge is creating a workplace where everyone feels heard and valued.


Common Questions About Leading Gen Z

What is Gen Z’s leadership style?

Gen Z tends to favor collaborative and inclusive leadership. They value transparency and are more likely to follow leaders who embody authenticity and purpose.

Which generation is hardest to work with?

It’s less about the generation and more about how you approach them. Every generation has its quirks. The key is to adapt your leadership style to meet their values and expectations.

How can AI tools help engage Gen Z?

AI tools like TalentNext can provide actionable insights into what candidates value. For example, resume analysis can highlight skills and experiences that align with your team’s goals, allowing for more tailored communication and engagement.

How do you handle Gen Z’s preference for remote work?

Be flexible but establish boundaries. Offer hybrid options and ensure remote workers have the tools and support they need to collaborate effectively.

How do you earn Gen Z’s trust as a leader?

Prioritize transparency, admit mistakes, and demonstrate a genuine commitment to their development. Trust isn’t earned overnight—it’s built through consistent actions.


Comparison Table: Traditional Leadership vs. Gen Z Leadership

Aspect Traditional Leadership Gen Z Leadership
Communication Top-down, formal Transparent, two-way dialogue
Motivation Financial rewards Purpose-driven work
Flexibility Limited (e.g., rigid schedules) Emphasizes autonomy and remote work
Feedback Annual reviews Ongoing, real-time feedback
Decision-Making Hierarchical Collaborative

Final Thoughts

Leading Gen Z isn’t hard—it’s different. They’re not disengaged; they’re selective. They want leaders who are authentic, workplaces that align with their values, and work that feels purposeful. If you’re struggling to connect, maybe it’s time to rethink your approach.

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Frequently asked questions

What is Gen Z’s leadership style?
Gen Z tends to favor collaborative and inclusive leadership. They value transparency and are more likely to follow leaders who embody authenticity and purpose.
How can AI tools help engage Gen Z?
AI tools can provide actionable insights into what candidates value. For example, resume analysis can highlight skills and experiences that align with your team’s goals, allowing for more tailored communication and engagement.
How do you earn Gen Z’s trust as a leader?
Prioritize transparency, admit mistakes, and demonstrate a genuine commitment to their development. Trust isn’t earned overnight—it’s built through consistent actions.
Which generation is hardest to work with?
It’s less about the generation and more about how you approach them. Every generation has its quirks. The key is to adapt your leadership style to meet their values and expectations.
How do you handle Gen Z’s preference for remote work?
Be flexible but establish boundaries. Offer hybrid options and ensure remote workers have the tools and support they need to collaborate effectively.

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